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|07.07.2024|
<p>5 years in this field, I have met several “strong, independent” women. Couple of them are owner of leading firms in Vietnam. Their asset is easy over 3 mil USD, but yet they are single.Today, someone asked me her personal docs which I know the divorce is happening. It raises lots of questions in me. […]</p>
Jul 7, 20241 min read


|03.07.2024| I was born with bad skin
<p>(2024 without make up -2016 with makeup)I was born with bad skin….My childhood, entire teenager, I grew up with this belief. It was common til the point when I was teased during final exam in grade 9 by my Biological teacher and I acted nothing. I was upset but I accepted because I spent days […]</p>
Jul 4, 20242 min read


|01.06.2024|
<p>Let’s be honest, I feel ugly and lost confidence a lot with short hair. Not mention, it is not easy to keep it for long period of time in Vietnam (2 years in my case). This means for the last 07 years, I have been fighting with my own every single day whether I should […]</p>
Jun 1, 20241 min read


|29.05.2024|
<p>I like to plan thing, I like to be on time.At the age of 26, I was eager to fix thing, to draw the black and white line. I actively against thing I hate: lying, being late, faking qualification.7 years passed by, I started new days w complaint from clients which I barely know. I […]</p>
May 29, 20241 min read


|15.05.2024|
<p>Let’s be honest.If I’ve lived till this stage of age, I do not worry abt being blocked 😅🤣I worry more on how I as a person with dignity coping with thing. I may joke around a lot w relationship but I do/ would not cross the line, if I know there is one…It is hilarious […]</p>
May 15, 20242 min read


|08.05.2024|
<p>I used to get mad easily.Still, I am. But it is quicker for me to cool down. Not because I forgave people but like we once said together “been there, done that”. It gave me better overall picture of how people passing certain ages, certain amount of life lessons to gain the certain life lesson […]</p>
May 8, 20241 min read


|01.05.2024|
<p>Typical introvert and long time no SOKO: of course still bad/ overcharge…as usual (not pretend to be surprise 😅)When 6-day-recover food poisoning hit 6-month-old mama, we share the same pain, just not sure which one is 😝First meeting of 2024, but countless for the last 20 years, so I would not complain 🥰</p>
May 1, 20241 min read


|25.04.2024|Sex and The City🌆
<p>(I wrote 50% of it while I was ‘younger’ and ‘full of energy’. The rest I was back from hell. So it may messed up a bit, but the feeling is raw!).*I am glad that I didn’t watch the movie till now. I may not get it the same way I did now. Similar age […]</p>
Apr 25, 20242 min read


|22.03.2024|
<p>*Hồi đó hay buồn, tự vấn sao cái đứa đó, mình hết lòng thương yêu vậy, mà không thấy được cái dạ của mình. Mấy năm trời xà quần miết, bỏ thì thương mà vương thì tội. Khổ trong lòng nhiều mà ít ai biết tại lúc nào cũng cố làm người phụ nữ kiên […]</p>
Mar 22, 20241 min read


|11.03.2024| These days
<p>I am back to my shellRead couple old text msgsThought about various events in the pasts.. These days, I went on the trek , reckon a current me stop being annoyed by certain behaviors. Those used to drive me nuts back that as such “it’s a common sense! How could you..” has no same effects..These […]</p>
Mar 11, 20241 min read


|08.03.2024| WOMEN, REASSURANCE or Mind game of Insecurity
<p>“Men like wine, women like milk”Someone once told me that on my 26 birthday. I laughed but comprehend that statement differently each year passing by. I admitted there were days that I do feel like such an old bottle of milk which someone forgot outside overnight. I guess every-single-woman at some point in her life, […]</p>
Mar 9, 20242 min read


|22.02.2024| THE POWER OF UNKNOWN
<p>I am blessed for a good memory, that I could memorize things quickly for a long time. This may explain why I remember most of people birthday I know. Growing up that way, I used to think it as norm. I used to wonder a lot why people can’t memorize small piece of info (really, […]</p>
Feb 22, 20241 min read


|04.01.2024|
<p>It’s not often these days you bump into people with right manner. There are less people forming a good paragraph, sending a decent text message. Cause when you are in South East Asia, it’s always easier to swipe right more, to meet the next one. But it does not mean people like me should play […]</p>
Jan 4, 20241 min read


|26.12.2023| Dark sense of humor
<p>Most of people may being offended by that conversation. Somehow, in contrast, I took it as a compliment. It is hard to conclude whether my sense of humor is nature or it has been developing by heaps of hours watching Stand up comedy (STC) but probably both.When I first started in 2015, it was simply […]</p>
Dec 28, 20232 min read


|21.12.2023| 2023 wrap up
<p>The most frequent question I got asked this year was “what do you want?” To be honest, I was thrilled, not only because of the gifts by itself but the gestures / the love I received from people.For the first time in the last three years, I could say I am happy on my own. […]</p>
Dec 21, 20231 min read


|23.11.2023|
<p>Not all ride are smooth and shit happens during the trip – more often than we think 😅.Seeing the Chinese couple keep staring at the bike, then heard weird sound at the back while the rain was about to come (what’s a scene 🎬!), realized one of the screw had fallen off.Luckily enough to find […]</p>
Nov 23, 20231 min read


|11.11.2023|
<p>Once you work on daily basic with strong – smart – good looking and truly independent women, it is just kinda sick to watch / hear what social media/ KOL draw an image of modern women these days.Yes, I am talking about women have from hundreds to couple millions USD. Women are senior manager level […]</p>
Nov 11, 20231 min read


|01.11.2023| Weekend talk
<p>It’s a great feeling to meet up with your old friend. Someone who knows most of your secrets and then as great company as he / she always be, you two could pick up the conversation whenever you have left for long time. [8.5] years ago, we first met up on the second last carriage, […]</p>
Nov 1, 20232 min read


|26.09.2023|
<p>It’s Okay for: – not being too smart – not to obtain tons of degrees / certifications – not to be “perfect” I firmly believe in self-learning, which heaps of knowledge that you don’t get it on school/ classroom basis. – all the techniques / tips for every industry – the way you interact to […]</p>
Sep 26, 20231 min read


|08.09.2023| What next?
<p>I used to work 90 hours per week when I was in Mel. But it was not the hardest part of my life; in fact one of the best. Lowest point of life is 05 years ago when I kinda ‘got lost’, not know where to go, what I needed to do next. I started […]</p>
Sep 8, 20231 min read
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