|07.07.2024|

5 years in this field, I have met several “strong, independent” women. Couple of them are owner of leading firms in Vietnam. Their asset is easy over 3 mil USD, but yet they are single. Today, someone asked me her personal docs which I know the divorce is happening. It raises lots of questions in me. I used to wonder a lot whether a successful woman would end up being alone. Or would she need to take a step back in exchange for her own marriage. I do not know, I really don’t… I guess when I get older, I may have better answer for this. At this stage of life, I just reckon the end somehow may not be an end after all. Getting older, I reckon the effort of compromising but yet also the willingness to let it go once thing is no longer in your hand would need go together. Sure, it is lots of sadness and pain. But at the same time, it is a new beginning. We all don’t know, every decision has a risk in it. You may walk away as a single….end up for years in loneliness and die as an individual; it also mean you may find someone. Ending a long-term relationship, it means you take risk with your own self, face 1-1 with consequences. We all know that boat that we get on…but the destination is unknown…it is scary I admit, but like every rain will stop for a while, the blue sky is waiting for us after all.