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|30.07.2024| Human nature
<p>.I once strongly believed that you was born alone, you die alone. No matter how many people meet up, that you would always start and end this life cycle on your own. This sharped my mindset for a very long time and certainly did not fit the mass, especially in Asian culture, in which the […]</p>
Jul 30, 20241 min read
|24.07.2024|
Can I pay you in separate? You know me as a single mom, I do need to save each cent for him. But I also know that you using your own...
Jul 24, 20241 min read


|23.07.2024|
<p>Ngày xưa quen không bao giờ hỏi người yêu làm gì, nên tới bây giờ thiệt sự vẫn không biết trai làm ở đâu. Chia tay không yêu nữa thì trả dép bố về. Cái tính trả treo là nết đó giờ, Bồ bịch hay bạn bè cũng cương y zị. Thành ra giờ tỉnh […]</p>
Jul 23, 20241 min read


|20.07.2024|
<p>I was born for… small size company I get used to live in small community, which I know people’s stories. Like a coffee shop I once worked in Melbourne, people come there every morning. It is when I learnt people’s habits. I know how many cups they use, how many sugars they may put. The […]</p>
Jul 20, 20241 min read


|07.07.2024|
<p>5 years in this field, I have met several “strong, independent” women. Couple of them are owner of leading firms in Vietnam. Their asset is easy over 3 mil USD, but yet they are single.Today, someone asked me her personal docs which I know the divorce is happening. It raises lots of questions in me. […]</p>
Jul 7, 20241 min read


|03.07.2024| I was born with bad skin
<p>(2024 without make up -2016 with makeup)I was born with bad skin….My childhood, entire teenager, I grew up with this belief. It was common til the point when I was teased during final exam in grade 9 by my Biological teacher and I acted nothing. I was upset but I accepted because I spent days […]</p>
Jul 4, 20242 min read


|01.06.2024|
<p>Let’s be honest, I feel ugly and lost confidence a lot with short hair. Not mention, it is not easy to keep it for long period of time in Vietnam (2 years in my case). This means for the last 07 years, I have been fighting with my own every single day whether I should […]</p>
Jun 1, 20241 min read


|29.05.2024|
<p>I like to plan thing, I like to be on time.At the age of 26, I was eager to fix thing, to draw the black and white line. I actively against thing I hate: lying, being late, faking qualification.7 years passed by, I started new days w complaint from clients which I barely know. I […]</p>
May 29, 20241 min read


|15.05.2024|
<p>Let’s be honest.If I’ve lived till this stage of age, I do not worry abt being blocked 😅🤣I worry more on how I as a person with dignity coping with thing. I may joke around a lot w relationship but I do/ would not cross the line, if I know there is one…It is hilarious […]</p>
May 15, 20242 min read


|08.05.2024|
<p>I used to get mad easily.Still, I am. But it is quicker for me to cool down. Not because I forgave people but like we once said together “been there, done that”. It gave me better overall picture of how people passing certain ages, certain amount of life lessons to gain the certain life lesson […]</p>
May 8, 20241 min read


|01.05.2024|
<p>Typical introvert and long time no SOKO: of course still bad/ overcharge…as usual (not pretend to be surprise 😅)When 6-day-recover food poisoning hit 6-month-old mama, we share the same pain, just not sure which one is 😝First meeting of 2024, but countless for the last 20 years, so I would not complain 🥰</p>
May 1, 20241 min read


|25.04.2024|Sex and The City🌆
<p>(I wrote 50% of it while I was ‘younger’ and ‘full of energy’. The rest I was back from hell. So it may messed up a bit, but the feeling is raw!).*I am glad that I didn’t watch the movie till now. I may not get it the same way I did now. Similar age […]</p>
Apr 25, 20242 min read


|22.03.2024|
<p>*Hồi đó hay buồn, tự vấn sao cái đứa đó, mình hết lòng thương yêu vậy, mà không thấy được cái dạ của mình. Mấy năm trời xà quần miết, bỏ thì thương mà vương thì tội. Khổ trong lòng nhiều mà ít ai biết tại lúc nào cũng cố làm người phụ nữ kiên […]</p>
Mar 22, 20241 min read


|11.03.2024| These days
<p>I am back to my shellRead couple old text msgsThought about various events in the pasts.. These days, I went on the trek , reckon a current me stop being annoyed by certain behaviors. Those used to drive me nuts back that as such “it’s a common sense! How could you..” has no same effects..These […]</p>
Mar 11, 20241 min read


|08.03.2024| WOMEN, REASSURANCE or Mind game of Insecurity
<p>“Men like wine, women like milk”Someone once told me that on my 26 birthday. I laughed but comprehend that statement differently each year passing by. I admitted there were days that I do feel like such an old bottle of milk which someone forgot outside overnight. I guess every-single-woman at some point in her life, […]</p>
Mar 9, 20242 min read


|29.02.2024|
<p>When I was 18, someone once told me that whatever you pick it up, then you could put it down. That statement has been with me since then. But I have never fully trusted it 🙂There were streets that I used to drive over hundreds time. There were songs I listened that I could now […]</p>
Feb 29, 20241 min read


|22.02.2024| THE POWER OF UNKNOWN
<p>I am blessed for a good memory, that I could memorize things quickly for a long time. This may explain why I remember most of people birthday I know. Growing up that way, I used to think it as norm. I used to wonder a lot why people can’t memorize small piece of info (really, […]</p>
Feb 22, 20241 min read


|04.01.2024|
<p>It’s not often these days you bump into people with right manner. There are less people forming a good paragraph, sending a decent text message. Cause when you are in South East Asia, it’s always easier to swipe right more, to meet the next one. But it does not mean people like me should play […]</p>
Jan 4, 20241 min read
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