|09.09.2024|

I remembered when I first came back Vietnam, as a 27, first thing I was taught getting married quicker. The biological clock is ticking. The older you are, the less guys offering things to you: gifts, trips, etc. Your chance is slimmer basically. Throughout the time, I was taught that if you ended thing with someone, you can’t be friend with that person. Otherwise, it means you did not love him enough. 06 years passed by, couple texts that I received, couple calls I talked, I reckon these lessons may not reflect correctly in your life. Every relationship should start off as solid friendship for me. Speaking from experience, I know the conversation could be picked up and go on no matter how long we stopped talking. It is not necessary to reconcile/ rebuild a relationship but more over, the person whom you could get along with. I used to be scared of 30s, but the idea of dying alone somehow not freaking me out for the last 6 years. Call me naive but I love those nights sitting on the rooftop, talking about our endless love for Saigon. Call me naive to believe life is more than hold someone real tight, to prove that love. As I am getting older, I reckon, there are different forms of love/ care for someone.